This past Friday I took the boys on an afternoon walk around the MDC’s reservoir off of rt 4 in West Hartford. The weather was fantastic as I pushed Edgar in the stroller around the right side of the first reservoir. Oscar did a good job keeping up and we maintained a good pace. We crossed the first large bridge and worked our way around the left side. We passed that same bridge on our way back and stopped for a quick applesauce snack at the picnic table just around the bend in the picture above. It was pretty late in the day and the shadows were long but we still managed to cover roughly 2.5 miles with lots of smiles and few complaints though Oscar was concerned that a wind gust might blow off his favorite hat.
Today I misjudged the weather. I generally pride myself on my ability to predict and avoid bad weather but I definitely got it wrong. We went out for a short hike at the MDC’s reservoir off of Farmington Ave in West Hartford today. There is a paved road that goes around the perimeter of the resevoir complex with some nice views and shade along the way. It was in the high 40’s with some intermittent light wind and cloud cover. There were some not so pleasant looking clouds to the west but only some spotty showers a half hour or so out on radar. I use the “Raindar” app and it gives up to the minute radar information including identifying and giving projected course and speed of any severe storm cells. I figured we would hike out for 15 minutes and head right back to the lot before the rain hit. 15 minutes into our hike I felt a rain drop and I immediately knew that I had misinterpreted the weather information in front of me. We immediately turned around and headed back to the lot. I thought, “Looks like we’re going to get wet, lets put up the stroller’s sunshade and speed up to keep from soaked.” The clouds darkened and the temperature dropped a good 5 degrees as we made our way through a pine stand to the first bridge. Then the sky opened up and started chucking little chunks of ice at us.
Oscar thought it was hilarious and started trying to catch them in his mouth.
Edgar was less amused and asked for the blanket. They were both all smiles after a few more minutes of this ridiculous tiny ice ball barrage but I have to admit to being a bit freaked out at first.
I checked the barometer on my watch and realized that I should have seen this coming and called off the hike. We’ve been cooped up all week and I didn’t have the heart to tell them we weren’t going once we got to the lot. Thankfully it wasn’t a more severe storm and we were all safe but I will have to make sure to look at all sources of weather data the next time the conditions are at all questionable.
I tend to over think things and hiking trips both big and small are no exception. Some days I spend an hour or more trying to plan out all the things I should bring along in case of hunger thirst or emergency and I drive myself and everyone around me nuts. This spring has helped me realize something that I hope will begin to permeate the rest of my life. STOP THINKING ABOUT IT AND JUST GO DO IT!
I used to fret so much over bringing things I never ended up using and it took some of the enjoyment out of getting outside and walking in the woods. I am a bit of a gear geek so I do get a kick out of inventing novel solutions to the various problems that hiking with children presents. At a certain point though the excitement and sense of accomplishment give way to anxiety over forgetting that one supposedly crucial item and it ruins our hike.
These days I keep everything I need in my car other than items that come with us every day like weather appropriate outer wear, our water bottles, and some easy snacks like granola bars and apple sauce pouches. My trekking poles, frame pack carrier, first aid kit, and space blanket are all in the car and ready to go whenever I feel the itch to go disappear with the boys down a trail somewhere. Not needing to plan makes a big difference in lowering my stress level and allows me to more easily enjoy hiking with my kids.
I don’t generally decide where we are going anymore until the morning of our hike. I find that this prevents me from over thinking and allows me to better enjoy hiking with my family. I’ve noticed that the boys have more fun and are able to stay out longer when I am relaxed and not stressing over packing up or picking a route. We figure out our destination an hour or so before leaving and we pick our final route once we get there. There are a variety of ways to do this but if you are hiking somewhere new I recommend looking at a topographical map of the trail and downloading a hiking app like Alpine GPS before taking your kids on it.
Despite all this the most important thing you can do to make hiking with your kids easier is to have everything ready to go so that you can hit the trail at a moment’s notice. One of the great joys in hiking is the unexpected. You can hike the same trail a thousand times and you will have a thousand different experiences and a sense of freedom and joy that nothing else can really provide. You’ll never have the same variety of experiences if you sit at home or choose to go to a playground or library. So stop thinking about getting out and hiking. JUST GO DO IT!